Weighted Conversions

There are two taboo topics with women; age and weight.
I've already touched on the age insanity in Pretty Little Vixens, so guess where I'm at now.

Women will believe what they want to believe. You have morbidly obese chicks who just think their god's gift to the world; then you have women who no matter what you say, do, or how they look, they will not believe positive; then there are the women who will twist anything you say so no matter how polite you are, you're being a right asshole.

There is a difference between "round" and "curvaceous." And there's a difference between telling someone, "You're fat," and "I'm trying to make sure you're healthy."

Its really hard to phrase this conversation, but when someone tries to look out for you and your well being, and states they understand why it's difficult to make this change, and keep change... accept it. Don't take it as they're calling you fat.

People need to be more accepting of opinions that are broached educatedly. I'm not saying everyone can have this conversation. They can't. It takes two receptive people, and one who can work their words to say things that will not cause damage or offence.

So women, when you're speaking with someone who is actively trying to choose their words cautiously to offend you in the least possible way, appreciate it. Try to not hear "you're fat," and try to hear what's being said, as opposed to what you only want to believe their saying.

My back up to this topic is again Philip DeFranco, with his comments of Ashley Graham being the first Sports Illustrated plus-sized model. And bravo to her!
But some do see it as pandering, as where do the healthy women end, and the unhealthy large women begin. It is healthy to have a little meat on your bones. I thoroughly enjoy women built that way. It is not healthy to be stupid stick thin like models currently. Just as it is not healthy to be too rotund.

Yeah, I've decided to drop the polite shit.

When you become overly large it's not good on your body, organs, tissues, muscles and joints. It wears on your heart which shortens your life span, and wrecks joints such as knees (and elbows if you lean on them) as they have to carry you, same as your muscles.

When someone pipes up its for your well being take it as someone looking out for you; not just being an ass and calling you a fat tub of lard.