I wasn't planning to write much more than I have been.
Once a week (Tuesday) during football season; maybe same day during hockey season if I feel so inclined. And then Thursday for whatever else I have on my mind.
But today is a different day.
I'm exhausted of being hurt. I'm done with it. I'm tired of being the nice guy, and being expected to take being walked on. I'm a person. And I know I'm not the only guy out there that gets treated like this, which is why nice guys are so few and far between ladies. It's your doing; you stomp on a nice guy enough, he changes to protect himself.
So don't then call him an asshole; your actions changed him. He started as a nice guy. You know that. But once you treated him foul for an extended period of time, started calling him names, lied, and used him like a sexual toy, and then withheld pertinent information in a necessary situation... yeah, he's not gonna take it well when you started treating him just like he has been treated by each and every other person.
Just because men have been stereotyped as the strong, "need no one" types, doesn't mean we are. I can function alone; but when I open up to someone and give them my all, it shreds me up inside when I get treated like dirt.
And anyone who says, "You're a good guy. Things'll get better. Everyone won't treat you that way," prove it. I'm batting a thousand for women treating me like shit.
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